Steps for Down syndrome domestic adoption (you could follow this for any adoption, I suppose...just eliminate any step that is specifically related to adopting a child with Down syndrome.)
The following are the steps I took in getting ready to adopt our
baby boy. Please note that we adopted domestically, which means from
the United States.
- Get a Home Study – you MUST have a completed and
up-to-date home study in order to adopt a child. Start calling
adoption agencies in your area and see who has the best price. We
actually started out as foster parents, so our home study through the
state was free, but I had to pay an agency to “amend” it so that it
could be used with private agencies. I called around and most agencies
wanted to charge me about $1500 (YIKES!). However, those agencies
would also have sought a child for me. I didn’t want to pay anyone to
do that because I didn’t think they would have much luck FINDING a baby
with DS (Down Syndrome) for us. I ended up finding a non-profit agency
that would amend our Foster Parent Home Study for just $350. After you have a home study, then
you are ready to start getting the word out that you wish to adopt.
- Create a “family profile.” This is something that a
potential birth mom can read about your family. It should include nice
photos and information about your family and what you all are like.
Here is a copy of ours for you to get ideas: FlegerProfileDSG
- Get on Robin Steele’s Down syndrome adoption waiting list here: http://www.dsagc.com/programs_adoption.asp.
You can find her email address right in that link. When I first
emailed her she got back to me right away. She hears about babies and
children with Down syndrome that are coming up for adoption all the time and acts as a
coordinator to help connect families and children…and she doesn’t charge
for this! She will tell you what she does, and then if you are
interested she will have you fill out an application. She contacted me
with three different possible placements before we were contacted about
Joshua, so she is really a great resource to have!
- Start contacting agencies that you are willing to drive to to adopt.
I emailed agencies that I was willing to travel to to adopt. I let them know
that we wanted to adopt a baby with Down Syndrome and I included a copy
of our family profile as well as letting them know that we were home
study ready. (This is how we were contacted regarding our son, Josh, last year!)
- Contact the following and get into their database, as well: http://www.chask.org/; http://www.spence-chapin.org/adoption-programs/b2_special_needs.php (based out of New York — but very low fees!); and http://specialneedsinfantadoption.blogspot.com/.
These are all people who can put you on their waiting list for no
charge. I NEVER paid anyone to put me on their waiting list. You can
if you want, but I don’t see the need to unless you are really desperate
and have tons of money.
- Start fund raising for your adoption or seek out getting a grant. I got a lot of great ideas here: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/fundraisingforadoption/.
I ended up doing just a little bit of fund raising, because our
adoption fees of $6,000 were completely paid by a grant. Please see
this page regarding grant foundations to contact. I did an
online/catalog party with a Thirty-One (purses, tote bags) consultant
who donated all of her 25% commission to our fund. I can put you in
touch with her if you ask.
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- Grant Organizations: Click here for a list of organizations that could help you fund your adoption. Special needs usually get higher priority for some of these. Here is another list I came across yesterday at a different site.
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